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Earl, I'm probably just a bit younger than you.

I certainly respect your experience, and all you and your delightful better half, Judy have given to the hobby.

I cannot imagine you without a vintage car to drive, or even just to look at and talk about.

 

For myself, I expect to keep as much as I can reasonably maintain, primarily considering any health and/or storage issues.

I also plan to continue judging, showing, and driving tours as long as possible, and as long as I'm not a danger to anyone.

 

I think we can all agree with Steve's comment above, 

that our hobby keeps us "alive", and that is worth shooting for. 

 

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I preferred quality over quantity for many years . Then quality jumped in price several fold beyond what my means advanced. So much for any ambition of ever owning a quality vintage car.  I never buy lotto tickets so not even that sort of false hope. No , just face the reality of downward mobility. So these days I have gone back to what I dreamed of as a 12 year old ; old car obsessed kid, my own junk yard with some essentially valueless old trucks.

A smattering of 46 and 56 bigger GMC's  / Chevy's and Maple Leaf's { Canadian market Chevy's} 2 ton and 3 ton. The problem of when I die is remarkably simple, just call the scrap man up the street. He might even pay a few $ for several ton's of scrap. I am in my 60's so over the next decade

I might even buy some more as long as I can find them for about metal value. It's my own version of a field of dreams.

He who dies with the biggest pile of neat old junk wins. And the dreams that you had as a 12 year old are sometimes the most important dreams of all.  Just ask any 12 year old from 1970 what he dreamt of while walking through glorious fields of worthless old cars and trucks .

Greg in Canada

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2 hours ago, Marty Roth said:

Earl, I'm probably just a bit younger than you.

I certainly respect your experience, and all you and your delightful better half, Judy have given to the hobby.

I cannot imagine you without a vintage car to drive, or even just to look at and talk about.

 

For myself, I expect to keep as much as I can reasonably maintain, primarily considering any health and/or storage issues.

I also plan to continue judging, showing, and driving tours as long as possible, and as long as I'm not a danger to anyone.

 

I think we can all agree with Steve's comment above, 

that our hobby keeps us "alive", and that is worth shooting for. 

 

Marty, I decided to retire from judging after the Mobile Meet.  Ive judged since 1970 and have over 250 National credits.  My wife will still work in Administration for awhile I think.  She hasn't committed to retiring.  I only made three National Meets in 2019 due to her three surgeries and my open heart 2-way by-pass.  My knee kills me to get up and down doing a chassis without touching the bumper.  It was just time.  I still have three cars including the 1991 Buick Park Avenue I bought last year with 3,061 original miles on it.  Already I made two Meets with it and got a Senior.  Now we'll use it more for what we bought it for -- comfortable touring with the club.  I still have two pre-war Buicks for the Sentimental Tour; although after W.VA. this year I have a buyer for the closed trailer.  The two sedans could probably ride okay on an open trailer if I want to spend the money.

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If I sold my last Pierce Arrow I might as well be dead. I'll gamble on enjoying cars and tours more now than I should.......I'm OK with being broke in my 70's if the previous fifty years were well lived. You only get one shot at the thing called life. I have had more than ten times my fair share of fun.......and I have lots more to go if I'm lucky enough. 

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37 minutes ago, edinmass said:

If I sold my last Pierce Arrow I might as well be dead. I'll gamble on enjoying cars and tours more now than I should.......I'm OK with being broke in my 70's if the previous fifty years were well lived. You only get one shot at the thing called life. I have had more than ten times my fair share of fun.......and I have lots more to go if I'm lucky enough. 

Ed I have a CCCA 1941 Buick Roadmaster so I guess we share those two major old car clubs.  I've had about 81 cars in 81 years too, but for me, I have to think of the future which includes what I may still have to go through before I die and what I want to leave in the form of cash after I die.  A ton of old Buick parts and two or three old Buicks won't help my two daughters (or my wife if she succeeds me) and they'll need that help.  I have probably already spent too much of my money and time on old cars to have done either of those daughters much good.  BUT, THIS CLASSIC PACKARD AT A GOOD PRICE HAS GOT ME THINKING.  😀

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Early in 2012 I came close to cashing in with a stroke and a couple of successive heart attacks. I am in better shape now than I was during the 15 or 20 years prior to the events.

 

One interesting game I found while recovering was to lie in bed, close your eyes, and forget all you know about your age. Then, from how you feel, guess your age. I keep coming up with 45 or 50 every time I play. (almost forgot, I'm 71).

 

This topic reminds me of a old car dealer story. A young Italian used car dealer went to Italy to visit the family. While he was there his uncle asked for advice on his aging Fiat. It had about 90,000 miles and he was nervous about it breaking down. His nephew rolled back the odometer to about 58,000 miles to help it sell better.

After the vacation he called back to the old country and Uncle Tony answered the phone. He asked his uncle if the car sold yet. "What! Sell that car with only 58,000 miles. I'd have to be crazy to do that!"

 

Well, I'm heading up to Tim Horton's to meet my cardiologist for coffee and a donut. We talk about cars on Tuesday nights.

Bernie

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1 hour ago, 60FlatTop said:

 Well, I'm heading up to Tim Horton's to meet my cardiologist for coffee and a donut. We talk about cars on Tuesday nights.

Bernie

 

Cardiologist?

Donuts?

No Cholesterol Concerns?

Congratulations !

 

My first big scare came after a couple of wonderful weeks of AACA activity. We were in "Hog Heaven" having a fantastic time with our 1912 Oakland Touring Car on the 1998 Glidden Tour in Mount Washington, New Hampshire and then Hershey Week. After the 2-day drive towing the Oakland home from Hershey, I got back to a busy work week schedule. I was returning to the New Orleans area from a Friday get-together in Baton Rouge, driving my "modern" unrestored 1958 Chevrolet Bel-air. I found myself totally exhausted to the extent that I had to pull onto the shoulder of the Interstate highway and lie down on the front seat. After a modest passage of time, and lots of traffic, I was able to cautiously drive the remaining 80 miles home. I felt so weak on Saturday that my family attended a Tulane football game in the New Orleans Superdome while I tried to get more rest at home, and missing a home game was not tolerated in our family. Our family doctor was away, camping for the weekend, and his substitute was of no help whatsoever. Ultimately getting my message, our doctor met me at the Emergency Room and later had me admitted to our local hospital. Ultimately, after several annoyances, hospital food, a sick roommate, and a nurse who kept waking me up to ask if I was sleeping, I learned that Bradycardia was in fact the slowing or stopping of my heart, and that she was probably keeping me alive. I met a gentle giant of a Cardiologist, Stan Bleich, now of blessed memory, who gave me my choice of brands for my Pacemaker. He laughed when I told him I wanted one made in the USA - no Chinese knock-offs. By this time next year I will likely have worn out my 4th pacemaker and be ready for yet another - wish I cold get one set for 6-VOLT AND 1000 CRANKING AMPS AND POSITIVE GROUND SO I COULD JUMP-START THE '41 CADDY AND '30 PACKARD !

 

My plan is to follow the  advice of Satchel Paige, an American Negro league baseball and Major League Baseball (MLB) pitcher who is notable for his longevity in the game, and for attracting record crowds wherever he pitched.  

 

"Don't look back - They may be Gaining on you".

 

A few other of his quotes include:

 

Work like you don't need the money.
 
Love like you've never been hurt.
 
Dance like nobody's watching.
 
How old would you be if you didn't know how old you are?
 
Age is a question of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter.
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Enjoy your cars, but I beg you to have a plan in place for the person in charge of dealing with the sale of the cars on your behalf. I have PTSD as a result of all I went through for my father. Dealing with selling his collection to pay for his care, while I was grieving and caring for him and watching his decline, nearly destroyed me. It was a hardship in the midst of a very tough time emotionally. 

 

I’m still recovering and I suspect I will be for the rest of my life. 

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36 minutes ago, kgreen said:

What’s the difference to you (or me) if I pass with money in the bank or a car in the garage?  In those last few minutes this question becomes moot. 

It really depends on the situation. 

What if you don’t pass, but become terminally ill and someone has to sell the cars to pay for your medical bills?

What if you’re too sick or have dementia and can’t help?

What if your wife or other people you planned to deal with things became unreliable and another family member, who lives cross country has to put their life on hold and loose almost 1/2 million dollars in income to deal with your $300k estate of old cars. 

 

Each situation is unique, but please make sure you anticipate things like that. 

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10 hours ago, Billy Kingsley said:

You mention two cars and two daughters. Have you asked them if they may each want one? The sentimental value, well, that may be more than any actual dollars. 

Two daughters and three cars and they don't want them and can't afford them.  Actuall, we have six cars with the modern stuff.  My will says the cars will be sold and the money divided equally.  Same with the furniture.  I'm trying to get ahead of that a little by selling them one at a time as I age.  Victoria Lynn makes a good point since the cars are titled only to my wife and I.  If we both became disabled, they would be stuck, so eventually we'll need a power of attorney, but not yet.

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1 hour ago, Dynaflash8 said:

Two daughters and three cars and they don't want them and can't afford them.  Actuall, we have six cars with the modern stuff.  My will says the cars will be sold and the money divided equally.  Same with the furniture.  I'm trying to get ahead of that a little by selling them one at a time as I age.  Victoria Lynn makes a good point since the cars are titled only to my wife and I.  If we both became disabled, they would be stuck, so eventually we'll need a power of attorney, but not yet.

 

A will isn't enough. At the very least, you should create a trust and put your assets into it so they can be managed without you. This protects your family and speeds things up when they have to settle your estate. I can't tell you how many teary widows and children come into my shop just hurting so much from the loss--dealing with the cars and everything else on top of the loss is like torture to them. Giving them "stuff" and making it their problem to dispose of it is just not right--there's so much emotional baggage in there that it's almost impossible and always painful. They're going to be stuck with things they don't want yet they knew you loved, and that will create all kinds of painful cognitive dissonance for them when trying to sell it. Saying it's not time for that yet is a mistake; very few people have the luxury of seeing death coming.

 

I don't mean to imply anything, but with my 82-year-old father, who is in good health, I've still instructed him to get his house in order so things don't have to happen the hard way should he suddenly become... unavailable. My uncle died with one of the most significant baseball card collections known to man--he'd been collecting since the '40s, lived alone his whole live, and spent every spare nickel on it, hundreds of thousands of dollars. With no other family, it fell on me and my wife to figure out what he had, what it was worth, where to sell it, who we could trust, and how to market it. It took more than a year of spare time and we still were never sure if we did it right. He was well-known in the community as a big collector but how to properly honor that? Would have been nice if he, as the expert, had made provisions so the collection went to the right people who would cherish it like he did. And he had esophageal cancer--he certainly DID see it coming yet did nothing. It was just dreadful disassembling his life's work and turning it into money, even though we ultimately donated the proceeds to cancer research. I nevertheless felt like a vulture picking over the corpse of someone I loved, not someone doing a good deed.

 

To me, wrapping it up right is falling over dead of a massive stroke in a parking lot. BAM! Done. But that certainly won't give you any time to get things in order. Please, if you love your family, organize things now. It's so hard to think about, I know that, but it's the adult way to handle it. I'm only 49 and I've already started putting things in place after seeing the heartache that walks in here every single day.

 

 

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Boy, this thread turned from How Old Is Too Old  to What Happens When I'm Dead or incompetent. I guess I'm blessed.  My grandkids have already decided which car(s) they want. Five grandkids (one great-granddaughter) and as of today 8 classic cars/trucks. I'm more concerned with how much enjoyment I can get in the remainder of my (and my wife's) life. BTW 4 of the 8 are registered to her. My mechanic is one of my best friends. He'll be sure to keep them well maintained. I hope the cars stay in the family for generations but I can't worry about that. I'm 70. I'd like to enjoy them for at least 15-20 years. Yes I'm an optimist. BTW I'm still looking for a '64 Malibu SS 4-speed like I learned to drive on if anybody knows of one for sale. 

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13 hours ago, Billy Kingsley said:

You mention two cars and two daughters. Have you asked them if they may each want one? 

 

2 hours ago, Dynaflash8 said:

Two daughters and ... they ...  can't afford them.  

I apologize for veering slightly (or further) off from OPs topic, but he brings up another very real and valid point many often ignore or don’t realize at all. 

Buying/obtaining an old/vintage car(s), even if in superbly restored condition and/or received for free (via will etc)  is just a beginning to serious financial commitments required to proper and respectful ownership of it/them.

 

Whenever anyone, especially someone new to this hobby asks my advise on getting  “some cool old car to have fun with” I usually immediately ask their ability to afford owning one since the acquisition or purchase price is merely an entry fee and fairly often even smallest expenditure associated with older cars.

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As a sidenote:  No one is better suited to sell a car than the owner (and some owners are far from good at it) and often times the knowledge disappears on their death saddling family members with things they are not geared to and/or do not understand - do some pre-arranging with an auction house, dealer, or ...matched to making sure you attorney knows what to do and so on - and otherwise just keep on enjoying what you are doing.  

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By the way, a relative just died and what was blatantly obvious was that there were no personal effects at time of death matched to none on the estate inventory -  no photos, no purse contents, no 3 carrot diamond wedding ring bought in 1958 that she had on her finger every day, and/or ... - and ducks were supposedly in a row here so ... 

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The "how old is too old" question does not have a pat answer, it depends entirely on the health and financial circumstances of the car owner in question. I just turned 71 and just bought another prewar car. I can still work on my cars but it definitely takes more planning and recovery time to do so. I have paid others to work on my cars and for the most part have not been happy with the results. By the time I turn 80 who knows? My interest level is still strong to the degree of obsession but will that change along with other issues?  Each must decide for themselves.

Regarding leaving a problem for relatives, while I would love a warehouse full of cars reality and circumstances limit me to two hobby cars at a time and I have clearly stated my instructions and assistance for disposal if necessary. Having a son who is a financial advisor also helps.

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On 11/26/2019 at 7:48 PM, Bob Giles said:

Marty, I finished reading the book you gave me. I look forward to reading the book you write about yourself. 

 

Bob, 

 

I hope you enjoyed the book, and again want you to know the extent of my appreciation for all that you both do.

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That's Monk, the detective with OCD isn't it?

 

After the unsolved murder of his wife, Adrian Monk develops obsessive-compulsive disorder, which includes his terror of germs and contamination. His condition costs him his job as a prominent homicide detective in the San Francisco Police Department, but he continues to solve crimes with the help of his assistant and his former boss.

 

 

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On 11/27/2019 at 8:11 AM, Dynaflash8 said:

  If we both became disabled, they would be stuck, so eventually we'll need a power of attorney, but not yet.

      You need it now, a Durable Power of Attorney at that.

       I wish these reply's were still numbered.  There has been some really good advice and wisdom shared in this thread.

       Earl, re-read Steve, Marty, Matt and Victoria Lynn's posts.   If you are to old to learn form others experiences, hire a CFP

       (Certified Financial Planner) and you too can prevent the same fate.

       Then give Sebring FL a break and become the old guy in the nice old Buick with great stories to share at local events,

       You could be good at that. 

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4 hours ago, Paul Dobbin said:

      You need it now, a Durable Power of Attorney at that.

       I wish these reply's were still numbered.  There has been some really good advice and wisdom shared in this thread.

       Earl, re-read Steve, Marty, Matt and Victoria Lynn's posts.   If you are to old to learn form others experiences, hire a CFP

       (Certified Financial Planner) and you too can prevent the same fate.

       Then give Sebring FL a break and become the old guy in the nice old Buick with great stories to share at local events,

       You could be good at that. 

Sebring, is not a good place for any pre-War stock automobile.  It's a hole street rodders live in.  Wife and i have a durable power-of-attorney for each other.

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18 hours ago, Dynaflash8 said:

It's a hole street rodders live in.

 

Up here in this neck of the woods all we know about Florida is what we hear on the news. Do they live in a hole to keep their cars from getting damaged by house trailer parts blowing by?

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23 hours ago, victorialynn2 said:

@Paul Dobbin, do you realize a power of attorney is not valid once someone is incapacitated in some states? I had to get Guardianship in Oregon to make his medical decisions even though I had medical power of attorney. Actually temporary and permanent due to an urgent medical issue. It costs $12k. Waste of money. 

   It's like car insurance, each state controls how you live and die and establishes the rules for that too.

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Earl, In spite of a number of people who have expressed negative thoughts about an old guy buying another car, I will offer my own take on it. As long as you are able to afford it, able to enjoy driving it, and want it, I would say that you are obviously not too old to buy another car. I would not amass a collection larger than you can drive often enough to keep them all in good condition but if you are interested enough to ask the question, it is my opinion that you are obviously not too old to buy another car. 

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7 hours ago, 60FlatTop said:

Do they live in a hole to keep their cars from getting damaged by house trailer parts blowing by?

 

No, have plenty of natural vegetation that is taller than my house to catch it and block the winds. It is Texans with 10 foot trees that have issues.

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What age is too old?

 

Whatever age my dad was when he bought his last old car and my mom was NOT happy. She never seem to have an issue with the other old cars he bought but the last one was the nail in the coffin. I think it had to do with he wasn't getting around to fixing up her old car and again, another of his projects was moved to the front of the line.

 

They both passed away several years ago and I was tasked with sorting out the cars and car parts. He never labeled anything or kept parts separate for each project whether finished of not.

 

PLEASE do your family a favor no matter how old you are, as you may pass away at any time, label your parts! Or at least group them together for the same vehicle. Also make a list of any "tricks" required to start/drive a vehicle, especially older cars without a conventional key start with procedures on how to start them. 

 

 

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