I wasn't either,
But what I got were LOOOOOOOOOOOOONNNNNNG lectures from grandparents, and other "older ones" who lived through it and told me how 'lucky I was'! They were the ones who didn't tolerate fussy eaters, and we should be happy we got dinner, period! The was no such thing as 'welfare' where a down & out recipient received a cheque, but it was called 'relief' with vouchers that were redeemable only for what was stated on it; sacks of flour, potatoes, etc., and one had to still make their own bread. As well, I was told they were happy receiving used toys or clothes for Xmas, and I should be happy with what I got, even if I didn't like it, or it wasn't what I wanted, but because it was NEW! I delivered the newspaper to an elderly couple back in the 1970's, and was told by the woman how fortunate I was the proceeds from delivering the paper were mine, and didn't have to contribute to the family income, as her brother had to back in the 1930's, and on and on.....
Craig