I'm sorry you took as condescending sarcasm, I didn't mean for you to take it so hard. I used to think of these forums as if it were a bunch of guys just hanging around a garage teasing each other a bit about what they're doing or want to be doing and offering advice if asked. But like all things there is an evolution and these forums are changing, some ways better, some ways worse.
Good luck in your search I meant you no malice.