Thanks folks - I sure take full personal responsibility for getting scammed, the man was very good at sounding convincing and truthful, and I suckered for it. I just want to point out though, the forum instructions for Buy/Sell do include adding one's phone number to the posting, as well as email, etc, and even further says if the instructions and formats are not followed that the posting can be deleted without warning. I would never blame anyone else but myself, but maybe those instructions should be revised going forward, to suggest that members not include phone numbers in the ad
In the end I agree, it is certainly Buyer Beware tho..